The Appeal & Attraction of the Alpha Male

People always ask me what attracts me most to a man. To answer, I look to the types of guys I’ve dated and the celebrities I have crushes on. I look for a common physical feature that I’m attracted to, but I struggle to find that commonality among all my crushes. Every guy I’ve ever been interested in sexually looks vastly different than the next. Answering questions of attraction based on physical attributes isn’t easy for me. I don’t have a preference of a man’s hair color, eye color, body type, or even height. There are certainly men I find…

Phone Sex Masquerade

A Great Season for Role Play Phone Sex There are many reasons that autumn is my favorite season. For one, the heat and humidity of summer seems to dissipate and the cool nights and beautiful, breezy days are a welcome change. Even though it’s the start of the school season, it’s also the start of sexy boots and leggings weather and pumpkin spice everything. It’s the season of my birthday (no big deal). Plus, it is the perfect time to act out all our naughty little fantasies that have festered all year long with some fucking incredible role play phone sex!…

Anal Sex Adventures

Anal sex is in, and to be blunt – most guys want to fuck a girl in her ass at some point in his life! It’s the hard (pun intended) truth. It can become a pressure between partners when one person definitively wants to try anal sex and one doesn’t even have anal sex on their sexy-time radar. The truth though, is that anal sex and ass play in general can be some of the most intense and enjoyable sexual experiences when done properly. When it comes to anal sex, some of us girls are success stories with positive first experiences. Other girls, however,…

In the Mood: Ryder’s “Sexy Time” Playlist

I love a good sex playlist. In fact, I’ve found that sex and music are two things that just about anyone you’ll ever meet will agree are necessary to a fulfilling life, and when combined can bring an already steamy moment to new levels of excitement. Being the sexually explorative and adventurous young woman I am, it doesn’t take much to get me in the mood for sex. However, just as with anyone, there are certain triggers that will always set the tone for some exceptional sexy time. A fun and steamy sex playlist is one of them! Music, Passion, and Sex One…

Make America Sexy Again

Are you ready to do your part to make America sexy? As a young woman of the millennial, digital age generation I know that by nature I tend to have a different outlook on a lot of life situations than probably many of the men I speak to on a regular basis. I’m of the generation who was practically born with an iPhone in our hands. If it wasn’t for the fact that my brother is a bona fide hipster, I wouldn’t have any fucking clue what people meant when they say things like “I have that album on vinyl” or…

Ryder’s Red Hot, Sexy Summer

Have you been having a sexy summer? I have! I’m well aware that I’ve been on a serious hiatus with my blog writing this summer. Blame my sexy summer days by the beach and pool with friends, blame my incredible vacation to Italy that put me in a “disconnected from the world” state of mind, or blame yourselves – my many phone sex partners who keep me up so late at night, exhausting me from anything else in the world to the point where my mind is filled with sleep, fogginess, and just a constant hunger to cum rather than writing…

Daddy’s Girl

Yes, I need to address the super taboo, “off-limits,” word that brings with it a predetermined understanding of the dynamics of a relationship. I imagine the word “daddy” has been a part of bedroom play for decades, but for me personally, up until the last year “daddy” to me was only used in reference to my ACTUAL father whenever I really needed to borrow money, have a curfew extension, or lay on a guilt trip of some kind. Like every “daddy’s girl,” I mastered the art of the pouty lips and whiney voice very early in life. As the father…