We’re All Gonna Laugh At You: The Basics of Verbal Erotic Humiliation

Erotic Humiliation Over the Phone The very first time I received a call from a client who was looking for some small penis humiliation, I read the situation completely wrong. The conversation went something like this: Looking back at this exchange I’m not only embarrassed by my inexperience at the time but also so amused at how I was silly enough to assume that being a “mean girl” would be a negative thing to a man. It’s silly because now I know better. Now, while I’d never claim to be an expert at the art of humiliation (or any kink for…

Work It Out

Sports Fetishism I’ve always been a physically active girl. My childhood, like most little girls, was filled with classes in skating and gymnastics. My early adolescence was filled with volleyball and soccer games. My high school years were filled with weekly dance lessons in ballet, hip-hop, and tap dancing. Once I left for college, I started exploring running, yoga, and even krav maga. I guess when one’s parents are told they’ve got a hyperactive little brat on their hands, they’ll do whatever it takes to focus that energy toward positive activities and honing one’s talents. I’m sure we can all think of examples…

Live Nude Girls

People who never pay the sex workers they get their pleasure from often have difficulty understanding why anyone would spend money on things that are easily found for free on the Internet. I understand this mentality and am guilty of it myself. Once upon a time, I too wondered why anyone pays for porn or hires women to sleep with them when both of those things are available for free. The Internet is inundated with adult entertainment at little to no cost. Everything is out there from free porn video sites, chat messaging with other adults also looking for a…

Arched Soles & Pretty Little Toes: Exploring the Foot Fetish

The World’s Most Popular Fetish Earlier this month I put up a Twitter Poll asking when people thought a woman’s feet were at their sexiest. Much to my delight, my personal favorite answer, “while wearing stilettos” won the poll, coming in at 34% of the vote. I’m always interested in the various fetishes I get calls about that are more outrageous and less popularly known. However, I wanted to take a moment to appreciate the most widely held fetish of all: the foot fetish. Feet are the most popular object of fetishism in the United States and around the world.…

21 Things I’ve Learned as a Phone Sex Girl

In honor of my 21st birthday, I present you with the 21 things I’ve learned through working in phone sex:     It’s not ALL about sex. Contrary to what most might assume, men who call phone sex lines call for much more than just sexy-time talk. Sure, things very often get steamy, but at other times it’s entirely normal to just enjoy one another’s company as one would on a traditional date. At times there’s “getting to know you” date type talk. Other times, hours of discussion might be dedicated to television shows and movies, politics and current events, and…

The Versatility of Phone Sex

There aren’t a whole lot of jobs, hobbies, or activities that offer a completely unpredictable and varying experience every time you engage in it! I’ve been working on NiteFlirt, offering phone sex for 2 years now, and I have to say: from day to day, hour to hour, and client to client, I am always surprised and impressed by the versatility in sexual desires NiteFlirt has introduced me to. I’m fascinated by the extensive list of reasons a man might pick up the phone and connect to a paid provider for their sexual needs; i’m equally as curious as to…

Knee Socks & Knickers: Exploring The Schoolgirl Fetish

Ain’t No Shame in the Schoolgirl Game Let me paint you a mental picture: Imagine a youthful looking beauty. She’s wearing a pleated micro mini-skirt, tight white knee high stockings, a white button down shirt with no attempt to keep it buttoned, tied up to show off her midriff.  This innocent little creature wears her hair in pigtails, and as she walks in front of you her skirt rides up a tiny bit, giving you a glimpse of her white, cotton, full-bottomed underwear that cling tight against her butt. Playfully, as she laughs with her identically uniformed friend, she looks…