Like It Rough

Full disclosure: I fucking love rough sex. Chances are, if you’re reading this you already knew that. If not? It’s time to get on board, because this isn’t the time or place to be gentle, sweet, and romantic. As I continue to get older and more experimental during sex, both on the phone and in real life, the more I want to be thrown around, spanked hard, choked, and torn apart. Basically, what I want is to be hate-fucked, and if you can’t handle me, step aside and leave room for a man who can. Romantics Need Not Apply As…

When We Feel Fireworks

We’ve all felt those moments of instant fireworks. For example, when your eyes meet a complete stranger’s eyes across a room, and you get that sensation of nervousness mixed with arousal, envisioning all the naughtiest of ways the two of you could spend the rest of the day and night together. The same emotional reaction can come from someone you’ve gotten to know over time, maybe not even being exceptionally attracted to them, but upon a single touch, your body instantaneously reacts. Your heart starts to rapidly beat. Your breath begins to quicken. Then, the feeling of an electrical current…

Guide to the Virtual Girlfriend Experience

I was lucky enough this past week to have an amazing conversation with a fellow flirt from NiteFlirt! My friend, Sara (popularly known as SweetlySensual_Sara on NF), is the gorgeous, sensual voice behind the podcast, “Must Love Fetish.” Yours truly was her special guest this week! Sara interviewed me, and we had a very insightful and thought provoking conversation regarding the virtual girlfriend experience. In an effort to expand upon a very fascinating chat between Sara and I, I’m dedicating this post to the elaboration of some of the interesting topics related to being a virtual girlfriend. My suggestion is…

Erotic Bedtime Stories

Imaginative Storytelling I’ve always had an incredibly creative mind. My ability to, on the spot, come up with compelling and detailed scenarios is one of the strengths that has made me such a successful phone sex girl. From a very young age I loved to read, write, play dress up, and play “make believe.” Still, as a young woman I love creating tales for my callers to tantalize them and keep them coming back for more. My role play phone calls as well as my fantasy mp3 goodies have helped me to rise to the top of popular flirts on NiteFlirt. Putting myself into…

Exhibitionism: Do It Like Everyone Is Watching

The Thrill of Exhibitionism On a recent phone sex call I had a man give me a sexy summer assignment. He challenged me to openly flirt, tempt, and taunt a variety of different married men around me. The catch though, is that it must be done in public. The men would not only be family friends or people that I already know, but also strangers who are out in public; particularly older men out with their wives.Thinking about this “dare,” gets me thinking about a topic I’ve been wanting to write about for a while now: Exhibitionism. Dipping My Toes…

Wrist Icicles and Dick Bicycles: Ryder’s Favorite Things

Whether you’re familiar with these sexual slang terms or not, you’ve undoubtedly heard the lyric “wrist icicle, ride dick bicycle” if you listen to popular radio. Regardless of how you feel about the music of Ariana Grande and Nicki Minaj, they managed to make these sex terms and actions into common expectation and practice in young adult social circles of today. Wrist Icicle Wrist Icicles are, to use amore familiar reference, an updated version of a “pearl necklace,” but instead a “pearl bracelet” so to speak. Instead of having cum trickle around your neck to mimic that of a necklace (don’t worry, us…

More Than a Pretty Face

No matter where I go, I feel people’s eyes on me. Some might say I’m paranoid,and others might say I’m conceited. In reality, I know there might be many possible reasons that people are looking at me, all of which don’t equate to me being complete and total hot shit. I’m humble enough of a person to not think the absolute world of myself. Yet, for years now, wherever I go, I feel people watching. I am not the type of girl who necessarily looks for attention every time I leave the house. Sure, if my friends and I are out…